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Expanded Sensation Play Tips

SENSATION PLAY IDEAS

HEAT
Wax
Hot Water (use eye dropper)
Cayenne Pepper
Ginger
Hot Breath
Tiger Balm
Warm Washcloth
Hand Warmers For Skiing

COLD
Ice
Chain
Knife
Pearls
Ice Cups
Ice Cubes
Polar Lotion/Icy Hot
Canned Air Spray

SOFT
Rabbit Fur
Feathers
Satin
Silk scarf
Paint brush
Makeup brush
Silicone basting brushes

SCRATCHY
Vampire gloves
Wartenberg wheel
Forks
Bottle caps
Metal hair brushes
Whisks
Toothpicks
Combs
Fingernails
Gravel
Brush
Pipecleaners
Loofah

PINCHY
Clothespins
Clips
Clamps
Biting
Pinching
Plastic Vise Grips
Alligator Clips

SUCTION
Snakebite kit
Sucking
Cupping Sets

VIBRATION
Disposable Electric Toothbrushes
Violet wand
Tens unit
Vibrators

PERCUSSION
Canes
Hands ~ fists, open palms
Flogging
Rubber bands (stingy)
Studded paddle
Crops

SMELL
Essential Oils
Flowers
Pine Branches
Citrus
Vanilla
Cinnamon

TASTE
Popsicles
Chocolate
Honey
Jam
Whipped Cream
Breath Mints
Flavored Lip Gloss

 

Some Ideas From Fetlife (fetlife.com)

Taste

1. Chocolate

2. Mints

3. Pressurized whipped cream

4. Fruit

5. Human skin (and blood)

Touch

1. Temperature play (hot fudge and ice-cream, hot rocks and ice, thermal creams)

2. Oils (I mix my own essential oils to suit the task, can also add to smell, and taste for some)

3. Flogger (leather, whisk, chain, fur, etc.)

4. Chain whip (full Persian, square stock, chain mail)

5. The human body

Hearing

1. Whip Crack

2. Music

3. Voice

4. Buckles (any noise from “equipment and toys”)

5. Environmental (diesel engine, nature, roommates/neighbors)

Sight

1. Blindfold

2. Lighting (incorporate something beyond just candles or a dim room)

3. Partner/s (nude, distressed, “engaged”)

4. Environmental

5. Equipment/toys

Smell

1. Chocolate

2. Mints (Including eucalyptus and menthol)

3. Smoke (incense, pipe/cigar/cigarettes, some foods)

4. Cooking (I tend to eat afterward, and sometimes cooking can add to role play)

5. Leather

 

“Excluding human anatomy, my top 5 for deprivation and enhancement:

1) Blindfold/hood

2) Ear muffs/plugs

3) Nose clip

4) Mouth sealing gag

5) Saran

1) Scented candles/oils

2) Knife (heated or chilled)

3) Silicone basting brush

4) Food (pastes and purees)

5) Satin scarf”

“Switching textures is lovely if you make each last long enough to get the skin a tiny bit used to the one sensation before going to another (i.e. feathers to e a hair pick, or silky strands of fabric ties together to a kitchen scrubber).  You have to watch the body though and see where their skin prickles, where they involuntarily move towards or away, to really amp it up.

They may also enjoy liquid play. You can make them body temp but of different viscosity and have them stand blindfolded and bound as you drizzle them here and there. And along those lines, being painted is very sensual too. The actual feel of paint is delicious but it will get cold quickly.  Using a paint brush with tepid water and then following with a really soft towel or cotton to dry right behind is yummy.”

“Piqueing the erotic mind is something that takes patience and tenderness. One experience that stands out with U/us is silk ~ scarves, sashes, anything soft, and silky. There are so many sensitive spots on the body that are forgotten and crying for attention. Silk run very slowly between the fingers and toes, over the wrists and ankles, the small of the back, between the lips and around the back of ears on the neck is a wonderful start. But so many sensations can be enjoyed by heightening the senses with favorite smells while blindfolded.  Be careful, though,  because those scents will be stronger to them. Erotic music playing faintly in the background while the room is dimly lit, causing sight and sound to heighten, and soft sounds can tease their mind as they struggle to figure out what it is and what you plan on doing with it.

So many lovely minds came together above me and mentioned fabulous ideas.  Someone said taking something that could normally cause pain and use it in a sensual sense, the cool, sharp steel edge of a blade, a flogger tracing gently over sensitive skin … so many ideas. But also the softer side feathers, puffs, and the underrated warmth of breath in the right zone along with the slight tease of the tongue and lips can set someone afloat. Drippy things, waxes, ice, water, honey, chocolate … all trail after they drip down the curve of a body, giving another sensation.

Don’t underestimate the practice of tantric, spend some time researching and trying it,,,,learning the technique of touch, barely touching your partner and sometimes not touching the skin at all but being extremely close can cause a reaction that is surprising erotic and passionate. Learning how to breath properly can also open your body to more sexual energy while experiencing or delivering the types of play mentioned by me”